Designing Your Funeral

There are two facets of the design process. First, we ask you to consider how you wish to honor and celebrate the life. When those important decisions are made, we’ll turn to the issue of how you wish to care for the physical remains.

How to Honor a Life

It’s about bringing those you love together, at a time of loss. It’s a natural thing to do, and over time, has become a socially-expected practice. More importantly, a funeral or memorial service, whether traditional, or contemporary, is the first step in healing.

You can have your service anywhere, and any way, you want. Your choices include the place of celebration, day of the week, and time of day; the musical selection, what prayers will be said or songs you’d like sung. We can arrange to have doves, or balloons released at the close of the service. Keepsake gifts of wildflower seeds or a tree seedling can be given. We’re here to help you create the most memorable and meaningful service to honor your loved one.

With an Eye to Your Future

We can help you come to the decisions that will meet your needs now, and in the future. This will allow you to have a sense of comfort with the decisions you and your family made to honor your loved one. This can make all the difference in your peace-of-mind throughout the years to come. Contact us today to discuss your intentions.

Should We Choose Burial or Cremation?

Your next consideration focuses on choosing between burial and cremation. Usually, people are clear on this point. In fact, your loved one may have told you, or someone else, exactly how they wish to be cared for. But it can be a hard decision for some families, especially when the wishes of the deceased were never clearly stated. If that's the case, please know we're able to help you come to an appropriate decision for your loved one, and for you.

Once you decide, you can shift your focus to the finer details of the arrangement process. For example, if you choose to have a burial, then selection of the casket, vault, and desired cemetery follows. . If cremation is your choice, decisions such as whether the cremated remains will be placed in a mausoleum niche, or buried on the cemetery grounds, should also be made.

In some communities, there's the option for a 'green burial.' If that's what your loved one would prefer, we'll help you select an environmentally-friendly choice. Whatever type of services your family feels are appropriate to honor your loved one, the staff of Harper Funeral Home will help by guiding you through the selection process.

What Is The Next Step?

Now that we've given you the key elements to begin the arrangement process, it's time to gather with family members to reflect more on specific components of the funeral that you deem appropriately honors your loved one. If possible, gather everyone together to speak of their feelings and desires. Expressing your feelings to our professional staff will help us to coordinate a funeral that is more of a loving tribute in honor of the life of your loved one.

Please contact us to discuss any questions you may have. We are available to you at your time of need at : (269) 342-1000.